Tuesday, February 22, 2011
We were asked in class what topics we would prefer not to bring up in conversation. I thought on this for a long time. Realizing that I have no particular conversation that I avoid, I noticed that I look at most controversial issues like a jury. I will listen to anyone's point of view so long as they have valid basis for their statements. I will present my side of the discussion, then we will try to prove the validity of our arguments. If I cannot void the statement of my opposition, then I must amend my own beliefs. If my own beliefs are made void, then I will look for a new point of view using the information provided to me. The process repeats. Shouldn't everyone use this logic to have a proper discussion? Most people who try to have an intellectual conversation say something is right simply "because it is." I refuse to argue with anyone with this kind of simple, barbaric thought process. We should all respect each others' opinions if we take the time to back up what we say, right?
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Amen to that. I applaud you on your wisdom. It is smart to back your information up as well as be patient while listening to the other side of the story. And even more so, admitting when your point is proven wrong. The world needs more people like you :)
ReplyDeleteYou've got it...the practical applications of research and argumentation. Both require thinking, though, which cannot be accomplished if we are rigid or intellectually lazy.
ReplyDeleteI was discussing bucket lists with a friend last semester, and one item on his list is to change at least one belief that he always held as the truth. This idea sparked reflection about my own truths. Which thoughts are worthy of belief and which ones should be questioned? I have been conditioned on what to think not necessarily on how to think even though the ability to think is essential to humanity. Consequently, many of the messages in my head are not my own. I suspect that I am not alone in holding truths that are created by others’ messages (language) that have become ingrained into my thoughts without any questioning of these beliefs. Fortunately, as human beings, we have the intellectual prowess to think critically and re-examine our truths and the truths of others.
Jessica
I agree brandon, I think keeping an open mind and actually caring about a persons side of the issue. Opening your mind and blocking out your own opinions can allow you to really understand and be compelled about someones side to an arguemt. I try to do this as much as possible.
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